My education my options?

Hi i dropped out of high school, but i am getting my GED soon. I plan on going to community college and doing very well 3.5+ GPA. Then transferring to a university. I will transfer out of state and im worried about finding love. Because when i transfer most girls will all ready be in realtionships and ill just be alone again like high school. i want to transfer to a respectable finance school, like cornell, michigan, depaul, miami U, Penn state(in state), Villinova(instate), Indiana, Carnegie Mellon(in state), but atleast top 50. In my chosen career path networking with alumni is what gets you interviews and jobs so its vital. I want to work in proprietary trading then eventually hedge funds. I want to be a trader. Im very good at this and do not lack instinct or patience. I lack emotions which is vital to long term success according to Ari Kiev, so im already ready to trade and trade my own account with alot of success. But education opens doors and if i cant get into a decent school ill simply never even get a shot. Im worried. My CC does not have any finance/Ibanking?trading clubs. It has honors society Phi Tetta Kappa, which ill try to get into. Possibly even play golf. Please advice?